Love and Collars The truth about being a submissive in a loving, healthy relationship.

To the outsider, a dom/sub relationship can look like many things, but for the most part what people see is abuse and a lack of respect.

As an adult woman in a budding dom/sub relationship with her permanent life partner, I have begun to see many preconceived, and incredibly false, notions on what this lifestyle means. This blog will reflect my feelings, my ideals, and my sex life.

I believe it is my role, as a female sub, to educate and speak out on this controversial and largely unaccepted life choice. Education and a willness to be open minded are critical for us as an intelligent race, and we all need to be more readily accepting of the people and ways of life around us.

I am determined to show the true nature of the relationship possible between a sub and her dom.

This is blog will contain NSFW images, articles and other such content. This blog will broach topics such as self esteem, domestic abuse, 'unorthodox' sexual behavior, mental disorders, romantic ideologies, chronic medical problems, sexual safety, bestiality, misogyny, rape, bondage, masochism, and even what a loving, healthy relationship between two consenting adults actually means.

You have been warned.